I wanted to wait a few days before posting this to get my thoughts in order…I also had to deal with another death, one in my family, this week, so it’s been a weird week to say the least.
I met Sven/Steve online several years ago, and in fact, one of my first videos was a response to one of his videos. I had the honor of him mentioning me and using my “Sven is like Batman!” quote based off of that response. That opened a dialogue between the two of us. We talked back and forth about religion, video equipment, travelling, families, and other things. One of Steve’s other handles was “OneLungWarrior” and that’s another thing we shared…I’ve had part of my left lung removed just like him. We certainly had plenty of differences of opinion: We argued about forum moderation, YouTube subscription tactics, and plenty of other things, but at the end of the day there was plenty of mutual respect. I extended an invitation to my home to him should he ever be in my neighborhood and he did the same for me, however unlikely that was.
Since his passing, I’ve heard that he was encouraging people to sign up at motovlog and get involved in the community, and that really warms my heart. I am glad that our differences of opinion didn’t cause him to drive people away from our little corner of the Internet.
The last time I talked to Sven was during the whole hacking scandal that took m13online and motovlog v1.0 down. I was annoyed with the whole affair, but realized that it wasn’t Steve’s fault. Shortly thereafter, I had heard he wasn’t doing well and I asked a local guy to check up on Steve. I never really heard a reply. I would occasionally see a post on facebook or whatever and assume he was OK.
At this point we all know that family relationships are tough. If you’re mad at or hurt by someone in your family, take the chance to put yourself out there and try to mend that bridge. Even if your relationship with your family is great, take the chance today to give someone a hug and tell them you care.
Like pretty much everyone else, I’ll miss Steve. A whole lot.