Well I think it's what they (media, political types, dirt kickers) decided to go after since the people in Charleston and those visiting were able to respond in a manner those people (in parenthesis) don't know how to respond to. In other words, there's got to be some kind of drama...can't let it go with most people having an attitude of forgiveness, showing compassion and love. I've lived in the South my whole live, was born in the South and have been in SC for close to 30 years and I couldn't care less whether it stays or goes from the flag pole. It is part of our history and as such should be displayed somewhere, like a museum at the least. I hope this ends all the talk of slavery/racism/other talk designed to get people all riled up and lets move forward with expressing compassion, empathy and love for one another whatever your race/political affiliation/sexual preference may be.
To answer your question directly about pride or hate - I think the meaning of the flag has become distorted for all involved and it's something that people have a right to display if they want to but I'm not sure why it belongs in front of the State House. We have a state flag, and the rebel flag isn't it.
That's exactly what's going on. The congregation forgave the shooter and were asking him to repent, the most mind-bogglingly Christian thing they could do in their situation and the news media went, "Boooorrrrrriiiiiiiiing. Let's hype the shit out of this tragedy! This one could last at least a few months if we juice it right!"
I can see where people who are still dealing with racism are coming from, wanting it taken down. However, I also understand the history of that time was much more gray than the black & white BS children are taught in school. Both North and South had slavery and the North was only abandoning it because they had a massive influx of cheap labor from Europe. Had they waited a few decades (and avoided over 1,000,000 DEATHS via the bloody Civil War) the South would have naturally grown its population and abandoned slavery as well. If slavery was cheaper than low income workers, the North wouldn't have gradually gotten into the abolitionist movement.
THAT is what bugs me about this sudden freak-out over the Southern Cross. People have no appreciation or understanding of just how complex and truly gray history is. The North was trying to take the South's industry and wealth by supporting Abolitionist terrorists (John Brown) and raising them up as heroes rather than the criminals they were. After numerous events which showed the religious fanatics of the north would rather support terrorism than let slavery be a states' rights issue for the courts to decide, the Confederacy was formed. Keep in mind, the Emancipation Proclaimation only covered slaves in the SOUTH, not the North. The North only offered slaves the opportunity for freedom if they fought for the North, aka duped them into sacrificing themselves rather than just freeing them like the slaves in the South. Lets also not forget the US government went on to massacre the native population after the war. Another fun fact is that the Native Americans and Hispanics from Mexico joined the South during the war because the US government was seriously screwing them over. It wasn't an all-white war for the South.
To play devil's advocate, though, there was a massive insurgency after the Civil War and people associated with the Confederacy assassinated a US President along with many other crimes. The Confederacy lost, so if anyone is using that flag for anything more than honoring their dead ancestors who fought in the Civil War, it's probably not a bright idea. I'm a direct descendant of Richard Henry Lee and a cousin to Robert E Lee, so I have strong feelings about all of this, but I'm not about to ignore the racost, violent, and bloody history between the loss of the Civil War and modern day.
SO, just like my cousin,
I don't think the symbol of the old Confederacy is worth supporting. Leave it for museums and graveyards. It doesn't make sense to fly it on public government buildings. The Confederacy is dead. If people want to fly it personally to remember the horrors of war, government abuse of power, and how much better off the South is without slavery, more power to em. If people want to fly it to represent Southern non-racist pride, whatever. Just don't say anything that sounds like it remotely excuses racist mass-murderers.