Breaking up with the GF

[Chuckles85]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMMRgksq2go[/youtube]

 

[DoubleT90T]

I had a recent break up too. Never easy...

 

[Neilisin]

It's funny how things are with trust and how people associate sex with love. I hate to sound unsympathetic... I really hope that's not how you take it! Anyhow, yeah I'm sorry you've gone through what you've gone through. In the past there has been trust issues with other ex's and they never end well, I've learnt the hard way too!

However, I find it fun to reflect on how little a deal it is in the great scheme of things when someone you love is with you because they love you, and when you abandon those insecurities that see things as a threat to your happiness together. Which if you don't, will eventually lead you to being alone because you were too scared they'd leave you first. Life wouldn't be worth living if it was meant to be simple and obvious.

Good luck dealing with it all. Chin up!

 

[Chuckles85]

Neilisin I don't know what you're going on about, I don't understand the message you're trying to portray. I'm simply a guy who isn't willing to let his gf fuck anyone and everyone, I might have read it wrong but sounds like you're willing to forgive someone who does this? Or did I read it wrong? Either way I will never be without someone I have friends to spend time with and to keep me happy. I also have self respect which I want to keep intact.

 

[Neilisin]

Sorry mate, maybe it's our station in life and all (or I'm just illiterate)

I wasn't saying it's OK for that, but I see why you'd think that.

I was getting at: that in hindsight for me (maybe also for you), I've been jealous of girls I've been with and their male friends who may or may not have posed as a sexual predator to her.... suffice to say the girls always have been with me because much like I loved them, they loved me back. However, fearful in myself of being left, I have dumped them. Much the same the reverse of this has happened to me for having female friends I had joked around with (which arises insecurities in your partner).

You're lucky to have good friends around you and I'm sure my over-complicated what I was trying to say.

 

[Chuckles85]

I can't remember what I said in the vlog but did I mention that for the last 6 months she didn't once say she loved me even when I confronted her about it, at the end of the day the bitch knew what she was doing and she can in the words of a good friend of mine "fuck off" new friends are sometimes the best friends you never met.